Showing posts with label nirvana. Show all posts
Showing posts with label nirvana. Show all posts

9.8.13

Are You Actually Happy? Is Anyone?



                   
Happiness is a subjective emotion. Everyone has different requirements that are tailor made to their personality in experiencing the feeling of joy. The concept of what exactly happiness is differs across a population. Some people find happiness in materialistic possessions, some in spiritual awakening and there are also some that don’t have a definition for it at all. There is no right or wrong when it comes to happiness just what one feels. The pursuit of happiness is a lifelong journey that isn’t complete till the day you die. I’m one who aims for the best, so I don’t desire an expensive watch, a beautiful home or a billion dollars. I want something more. Whenever I’m asked what I want most in life, I have one standard answer, “ At the end of the day I want to be able to look at myself in the mirror and be genuinely happy, I want to attain Nirvana.” The concept of ‘nirvana’ or salvation describes how you reach a point of ultimate satisfaction and are then cut off from your body form and worldly desires. ‘Nirvana’ is a concept I live by, I have it inked on my left arm. I worship it but I’m looking to breach it in one small way. I long to attain nirvana while alive, I have no idea how I would accomplish that because it opposes the very essence of the concept. I’d rather be a dreamer than a follower.

            Happiness is near impossible, it teases you. You think you want something; work hard to get it, on attaining whatever this prized possession is, your imagination immediately conjures up another desire or makes you confused as to why you had that desire in the first place. Many people’s desires are shaped by society, any materialistic possession serves as an example here. If one takes a step back and observes those around him, he will see one big machine. Almost everyone you know is going through life in the same way; school, college, money, marriage, kids, retirement. I find it amazing that out of all the possibilities in this huge world of ours we have narrowed down a basic cycle of life for all humans. The best part is we have done it without even knowing it. Our society is all about conformity; it’s a concept that is engraved into our minds from the second we are born. By this logic our desires are conformed with one and other. This one big conformed desire of ours forms it’s roots at the concept of materialism. But, look at the world today with war, terrorism, divorce, hunger, environmental destruction, economic instability etc. At the end of the day what can an expensive diamond necklace do for your spiritual well being, inner peace or for the general good? Might it be better the shift our desires based on another concept? Maybe peace or love?